Hey Everybody.. I came into my gay life very late... At the age of 23... Well since then I have got only one boy friend.. And he was an ass anyways cuz... He says he loved me more than anybody.... and then just for the sake of peer pressure and family pressure, he just married some woman.. Then thats it... that where it ended... Thats what is my first love....
Then after that for 2 full years I haven't tried anything else.. Just being alone...sometimes it really sucks a lot man... And one fine day I have started this FB id... I noticed LOTS OF PEOPLE IN UAE ARE STILL MEETING UP AND HAVING FUN... But my question is
1.Why is that all people are just looking for just a fuckbuddy alone..???
2.People are using the good word FRIENDSHIP instead of saying fuck buddies...
Ya coming back to the topic... Even here I met a guy whom I thought had the exact personality that I was looking for (I didn't mean the looks at all ). So I thought okay.. let me for it... Then eventhough it was well and good till the day I proposed first... Thats it... He's out... (May be proposing first is dumb...??? i don't know or is it the right thing cuz thats what your heart said not the brain)
My mind started to boil once every minute... you know what I mean right..??
You can't think.. you can't eat...Struggled a lot for about a week... then I reallized that GAY LIFE IS JUST ABOUT BEING A BUM or ASS??? (I am not sure whether I am correct or not... Sorry if I hurt anyone.. I just want to get a clear picture of what I am doing cuz I want to get rid of these.... )
What I am thinking is...
"IF GAYS COULD ONLY RESPECT THEMSELVES MORE, AND LIVE A HEALTHY MONOGAMOUS LIFE, STOPPING THEMSELVES FROM SEARCHING BODY TO BODY LOOKING FOR PERFECTION IN JUST SEX... I THINK WE COULD REALLY ACHIEVE GREATER THINGS IN LIFE...!!!"
Well to add for the above, a recent survey in the US stated that (I m not sure, where did I read that so I dont have reference...) Gays compared to the hetros have more intellectual abilities... It is true...
FYI Leonardo Da Vinci - The greatest inventor, scientist, doctor and with many more qualities have been called as MIRACLE MAN of the Human race... And he's GAY.. and he's monogamous in his entire life..... What i am trying to say is Guys... Start giving respect to our community and start living your life... Life isn't all about sex.. Cuz by the time you realize THIS FACT with your own life & Experiences... It ll be too late... All your energy to do different and adventurous things in life will be just drained... So WAKE UP...!!!!
Remember "Certain times, your life could just serve a purpose of how not live.. So, Start LIVING BUDDIES...."
Then this morning when I have seen this group.. I really felt kinda happy...
Respect yourselves more.... Happy Life...!!! and Be Happy..!! Be Gay...!! Be in LIFE..!!! All the best to all my buddies...!!!
Along with this I would like to present this video bit from a movie GET REAL (1998).. & PLs Share thiS BLOG WITH YOUR FRIENDS...!!!
Hey thanks for blogging and letting me know that there are other people like me who fall in love with a guy only for him to realize after a year that he is better off being straight in India. He even got himself a girlfriend and claims he is madly in "love" with her. Sad for me I still love him. I always thought and think you can fall in love only once. Its been a year now since he fell in love with that girl. Wonder if I'll ever get over him. How did you get over your first love?
And by the way I watched Get Real. Have you watched Summer Storm. It is a German movie but I guess English versions are available. You should check it out (Sorry for the Anonymous comment before this. Thought i'll atleast name myself)
I am so sorry for being so late Josh.. I actually didn't catch up with myself for a while... And summer storm... I ll try to watch it.. And as for the Getting over 'IT' concerned i think we should really need to talk man... catch me up in revo2020@yahoo.com
I agree with your post, Yash. It is very sad that many gays are setting poor examples on Internet by talking about sex, sex and sex. This also creates an impression that gays are always thinking about sex, and that they cannot have a "normal" friendship with other men -- on the other hand most people agree that a heterosexual man and a heterosexual woman can be Platonic friends.Your idea of favouring monogamy over promiscuity is also an idea I have.
I also agree with monogamy in homosexual relationships.
However, two men (exactly two men) living together will make a lot of people ask questions! It might just be easier for both to live alone and meet anywhere suitable practically every day if they can afford it.
I wonder how you'll take strangephilosophy.blogspot.com
hey forum,
I live in Dubai/Sharjah. I am basically from Chennai. I don't normally write and things, but i really felt that there's no tamil movies at all for gay love. so i wanna do something. i m funloving i mean literally very funny gay... i think that s enough now... pls do comment...
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Good post to begin with. I have heard a lot about get real. Yet to see the movie though...
Hey Adithya if you have internet I can give you the download link buddy...
Hey thanks for blogging and letting me know that there are other people like me who fall in love with a guy only for him to realize after a year that he is better off being straight in India. He even got himself a girlfriend and claims he is madly in "love" with her. Sad for me I still love him. I always thought and think you can fall in love only once. Its been a year now since he fell in love with that girl. Wonder if I'll ever get over him. How did you get over your first love?
And by the way I watched Get Real. Have you watched Summer Storm. It is a German movie but I guess English versions are available. You should check it out (Sorry for the Anonymous comment before this. Thought i'll atleast name myself)
I am so sorry for being so late Josh.. I actually didn't catch up with myself for a while... And summer storm... I ll try to watch it.. And as for the Getting over 'IT' concerned i think we should really need to talk man... catch me up in revo2020@yahoo.com
I agree with your post, Yash. It is very sad that many gays are setting poor examples on Internet by talking about sex, sex and sex. This also creates an impression that gays are always thinking about sex, and that they cannot have a "normal" friendship with other men -- on the other hand most people agree that a heterosexual man and a heterosexual woman can be Platonic friends.Your idea of favouring monogamy over promiscuity is also an idea I have.
I also agree with monogamy in homosexual relationships.
However, two men (exactly two men) living together will make a lot of people ask questions! It might just be easier for both to live alone and meet anywhere suitable practically every day if they can afford it.
I wonder how you'll take strangephilosophy.blogspot.com
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